Lack of patience is an impediment to success| It’s not only the number of those achieving success rising, it is the need to achieve it that is on the rise. The ‘competition’ is massive. Yet sometimes to achieve greater things in life you need not to compete but simply beat them. Patience is staying out of the competition but also striving to be a better you, beat what you were a second ago, and, therefore, beat them by accident.
It’s not only patience required when results are not showing up in time but when results show up on their time as a failure. Patience is when time is moving and you do not care whether you are hitting the gold or the rubble. That lack of care about the results is a basic maker of success because successful people are highly likely to be people with a lot of failures in the past but also ahead. We live in an environment with a multiplicity of patience erasers. The lack of patience is rife. It must be.
But without patience, there is no waiting for an uncertain season of harvest. Shortcuts are not the dream. The dream itself can never wake you up before its time. Where patience is lacking the actual dream is replaced by shortcuts.
Patience is functionally staying where you are not wanted, welcoming the unwelcomeable and hoping for the best without hoping for the best in the next second or the next year. If you don’t stay where you are not wanted but where you should stay to bring out something you desire you don’t get what you desire. Since success is for the few who only deserve it, why should it be given to dudes who want clean results like yesterday? The lack of patience erases all that you must put to the surface to claim victory. Where you are required to feel the pain you just run away.
I’d rather feel the hate in what I love. Than feel the love in what I hate…Meinrd Socien Dandadzi, SubjectMe
Feeling the hate in what you love. If you take that as your only option; It means there are no conditions to stay but you are simply staying because you love it. This becomes patience working in harmony with passion. Feeling the love in what you hate is simply welcoming stakes with high and immediate rewards but them being anything you don’t really love. In this case, you are only willing to welcome anything welcomeable and not punishing. But anything of such kind creeps in as one of the things your heart don’t beat for.
Why would we want things in our hands that are exclusive to the few that easy? Why? Because patience is hard to incorporate into anyone’s system. It doesn’t keep the beholder happy it can only keep him/her enduring what most are not ready to endure, and therefore, it is a rare commodity. It doesn’t beg anyone to allow it in his system and it doesn’t force to get in. This nature of patience is by design to keep itself in the systems of the few. The lack of patience remains one of the biggest impediments to success.
Where society meets, a narrative of achievements without patience is indirectly created and maintained. We love “automatic success” especially the one that is judged by what each one among us can buy and show and followers you can have, and it rarely exists. Social networks carry images that do not reveal anything patience or even true success but they trigger a lot, including confusion, among the youth who are aiming to achieve. An athlete is already in the tracks, says an image posted. However, years of work behind are hidden, and the image goes viral missing its reality.
Patience, despite causing you to stay where the pain is, can take away some of the pain and ready yourself to endure the pain. It is patient in having you take no shortcuts and start again when the long way doesn’t lead to the results desired. Patience is patient in having you take a long way again and again without any results. It also faces the verge of extinction all the time; both in the long-term and the short-term. A minor failure causes patience to die. Seven days of visiting the same office without getting the answer erase the possibility of visiting it the eighth. Yes, there are times when you can be pointlessly patient. But patience when it is pointless it’s less pointless than the opposite of it.
Sacrifices happen in a sea of patience. In patience, you wait for what you have been not promised, and only you are sure that it is going to come out right or not, then right after more trying. Sacrifices happen in the same manner apart from the fact that there is no hint of waiting. Yet both can produce the same results. You can sacrifice and still fail but git it right after many costly sacrifices.
Unique results are less likely to come overnight. Interesting results must come overnight. But there is a difference between the results that you wish to get and interesting results. The results you wish to get require patience. Patience is harder to live in and maintain. Patience, the lack thereof, is the biggest impediment to the attainment of success.
Without the power to be to face total starvation without determination changed. Without the power to stand for ages without your needs addressed. Without the lust to stand for ages without your needs addressed. The amount of distance in light-years from achieving success is only higher.