Motivation

The lack of patience is an impediment to attaining success.

Good Things take time

Lack of patience is an impediment to success| It’s not only the number of those achieving success rising, it is the need to achieve it that is on the rise. The ‘competition’ is massive. Yet sometimes to achieve greater things in life you need not to compete but simply beat them. Patience is staying out of the competition but also striving to be a better you, beat what you were a second ago, and, therefore, beat them by accident.

It’s not only patience required when results are not showing up in time but when results show up on their time as a failure. Patience is when time is moving and you do not care whether you are hitting the gold or the rubble. That lack of care about the results is a basic maker of success because successful people are highly likely to be people with a lot of failures in the past but also ahead. We live in an environment with a multiplicity of patience erasers. The lack of patience is rife. It must be.

Related: 7 ways of bringing in your failures to help in bringing your success

But without patience, there is no waiting for an uncertain season of harvest. Shortcuts are not the dream. The dream itself can never wake you up before its time. Where patience is lacking the actual dream is replaced by shortcuts.

Patience is functionally staying where you are not wanted, welcoming the unwelcomeable and hoping for the best without hoping for the best in the next second or the next year. If you don’t stay where you are not wanted but where you should stay to bring out something you desire you don’t get what you desire. Since success is for the few who only deserve it, why should it be given to dudes who want clean results like yesterday? The lack of patience erases all that you must put to the surface to claim victory. Where you are required to feel the pain you just run away.

I’d rather feel the hate in what I love. Than feel the love in what I hate…

Meinrd Socien Dandadzi, SubjectMe

Feeling the hate in what you love. If you take that as your only option; It means there are no conditions to stay but you are simply staying because you love it. This becomes patience working in harmony with passion. Feeling the love in what you hate is simply welcoming stakes with high and immediate rewards but them being anything you don’t really love. In this case, you are only willing to welcome anything welcomeable and not punishing. But anything of such kind creeps in as one of the things your heart don’t beat for.

Why would we want things in our hands that are exclusive to the few that easy? Why? Because patience is hard to incorporate into anyone’s system. It doesn’t keep the beholder happy it can only keep him/her enduring what most are not ready to endure, and therefore, it is a rare commodity. It doesn’t beg anyone to allow it in his system and it doesn’t force to get in. This nature of patience is by design to keep itself in the systems of the few. The lack of patience remains one of the biggest impediments to success.

Where society meets, a narrative of achievements without patience is indirectly created and maintained. We love “automatic success” especially the one that is judged by what each one among us can buy and show and followers you can have, and it rarely exists. Social networks carry images that do not reveal anything patience or even true success but they trigger a lot, including confusion, among the youth who are aiming to achieve. An athlete is already in the tracks, says an image posted. However, years of work behind are hidden, and the image goes viral missing its reality.

Patience, despite causing you to stay where the pain is, can take away some of the pain and ready yourself to endure the pain. It is patient in having you take no shortcuts and start again when the long way doesn’t lead to the results desired. Patience is patient in having you take a long way again and again without any results. It also faces the verge of extinction all the time; both in the long-term and the short-term. A minor failure causes patience to die. Seven days of visiting the same office without getting the answer erase the possibility of visiting it the eighth. Yes, there are times when you can be pointlessly patient. But patience when it is pointless it’s less pointless than the opposite of it.

Sacrifices happen in a sea of patience. In patience, you wait for what you have been not promised, and only you are sure that it is going to come out right or not, then right after more trying. Sacrifices happen in the same manner apart from the fact that there is no hint of waiting. Yet both can produce the same results. You can sacrifice and still fail but git it right after many costly sacrifices.

Unique results are less likely to come overnight. Interesting results must come overnight. But there is a difference between the results that you wish to get and interesting results. The results you wish to get require patience. Patience is harder to live in and maintain. Patience, the lack thereof, is the biggest impediment to the attainment of success.

Without the power to be to face total starvation without determination changed. Without the power to stand for ages without your needs addressed. Without the lust to stand for ages without your needs addressed. The amount of distance in light-years from achieving success is only higher.

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What you can buy… It’s a bad to measure of wealth or so.

What You can buy Credit:CleanPNG

What you can buy… In fact, it’s dangerous to use items that one or a group of people can buy as a tool for judging if one is poor or not. But we live in that danger all the time. To judge whether one of us is having a better life or not items s/he can buy are counted, and we all want to look better-off in life than to feel better-off or be better-off in practice. So, chances are in a bid to appear better-off we buy items that are not really functional but those that can help us to stand up in a better league with others.

Related: Between wants, needs and purpose is a conflict. Between needs and wants is a purpose.

Poverty on the other hand, we can learn from lottery winners, can only end through functional items we may either acquire of build in our lives. It doesn’t end through what we can buy or the capacity to buy the items we buy. We need to bring in functional items into our hands. Those items may include our own education, assets that can cash in or help in that process, than items that can cash out as liabilities and among other things.

On the other hand, money getting into our hands do not go up as a result of nonfunctional items we put into our hands. They are just priceless relics, and they are expensive for the record. The confusion is most of the things that we call assets are not really assets they are just items we can buy, losing much in the process of buying them.

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The pressure and the education out there quickly is there to teach us that those nonfunctional items we acquire are functional. We learn to defend our acquisitions just as we defend subconsciously an addiction. We love to own much useless stuff and stand out in the competition of owning them useless stuff. The cost is always hefty.

As we put more and more unfunctional things that can help us to stand up nonstop, we build a habit. A spending habit. The most poor among us think that it’s a habit for those who have much to spend. But the button line is we are only losing more to what can never bring it back. While this all happen we are making it even harder to realise our potential in life. We just go below average. We just learn to complain about money buying less stuff. Yet we don’t care about money buying useful stuff.

Function is not buying ten bags with the same colour under the same label and in the same edition and buy again more in the next edition before you are done with the ten old colours. We just pile things in our lives that drains our financial potential because we don’t want to look poor and it’s wrong. Being poor or rich is  only mistakenly measured in terms of how much you can acquire. Those things visible to them. So that you don’t stand out visibly poor but visibly rich.

Related: Poor or not? The visible poverty and invisible poverty perspective 1/2.

Sellers have found their way to advertise so that we can only buy because we are inclined to buy. In fact, buying stuff is one of the things we are expected to do by the society and we must do it. We respond to this expectation very well. And when we do we don’t do it mostly to bring functional things in our lives. We fill our garages with toys our kids can never have the chance to put their hands on because of their quantity.

The end result… someone can quickly and cleanly rise from being a street kid into someone well ahead. In some instances, although this doesn’t usually, this happened in our history.

I remember picking something from my own family here. Me (born 1995) and siblings (2000, 2006) grew up in an African village and, while we were in one of the well-to-do families in the village we were not well-to-do enough to have the luxury of owning personal computers. Yet my parents’ family planning pattern was the first of this kind in the village. At 20, I owned my first PC. Sister (2000), owned her first Mac at 20 as well as it was a requirement for the University degree.

In some cases, and this can be the case with some other fellows I managed to know during my years at College, laptops, if not for writing assignments and reading stuff to do with exams laptops can also be just for gaming and watching pirated movies.

So, I faced a hard time convincing sister to get to know the App Store and discover softwares (free or trial) that are for accounting stuff as she pursued in that field until I gave up. Mobile data was getting cheaper and cheaper and also faster enough.

Sometimes we can have a functional item in your hands. But there is not going to be anyone to daily deliver a “what’s next manual” to us. That being said we also acquire functional items. But rather allow them to exist in our hands without serving their function, or very little of their function. 

If the item in one’s hands serves all its functional purposes it cease to be an item or an ‘asset’ to become a resource. That transition into it being a resource is chiefly driven by availability of consciousness.

  • Why you have it (that item) now, then, of all the people, etc? 
  • What it can give you?
  • What you must do with it?

Above are important important questions. They must run subconsciously in us as we own or think about owning not only items but resources. An owner of resources don’t care about how fast and how latest-edition it is.  S/he simply looks into not the things he wanna do but the things he must do through his/her resources and do them.

Are you acquiring anything you are with a mindset of a carpenter buying a toolbox with hammers and other of his best tools?

Who you are is what they must love if they care.

People who must stay are people who are ready to love who you are, not what they expect you to be. That a boyfriend would walk out of a relationship after learning that his girlfriend experience seizures is not any unique story. You must not exist to fulfil their expectations. You deserve your peace and freedom. You just have to be you and there is no harm in being the best you. Let them go.

If you are not you, who are you? If they don’t love who you are what are they pretending to love?

Who you are is the entire you. If it’s rejected. You are completely rejected. You don’t have to keep begging for the care and they don’t have to change who you are to care.

Being not accepted is painful. Allowing the unacceptable to overhaul you is ruinous. You just have to let go and quickly let go. They don’t belong to you don’t force them into your camp. Without them and alone you can even get a chance to feel what you are and who you are.

If you want to have the best experience at the party you might want to stop being the invited and start to invite. Once you try to be a gate crusher at some unwelcoming folks’ festive you are no longer enjoying the experience. And you become a pain to them. How can someone who truly care feel the pain in handling you?

Don’t worry if you’re not loved, and when she is. Because your success, your greatness and happiness, if you’re to fight for it well, and your future joy, may come through the fact that you are the detested one now. Life is a journey—and of the over 7 billion journeys they’re a lot of stories Cinderella-ending after starting and prolonging a Dracula style, and some prolonging well and ending not fine or fine. Tomorrow wants you to close the curtains of today, and cover your skylarks. The new sunshine will come. Once it hits your curtains, open them.

Your neighbour being the kissing a man of your dreams by the roadside that’s a milli-fraction of her journey, why should be yours be peering through the window and exploding in jealousy and pain about it every day.

 The moving of days won’t stop because you’re stuck in one fraction of your life. Move on.

Then they are moments when you must help them to care. If you must help them to care don’t try to change anything in you that’s unchangeable. You don’t walk on a rope. You can’t change that. But you can change your speech from bad to good.

Again bad is not what “bad people” do. Bad is what people do and do it through very bad means. That being said there is nothing called bad people. It is bad deeds that exist. Someone isn’t bad for being a member of a belief system that varies from you. You are not bad because of that. Therefore, if they can’t accept that people can be different and that you are what you are, let them cease to be in your system.

The best joy is total acceptance. You can not enjoy being a visitor while you arrive where doors are locked. The total acceptance is all who you are accepted. All who you are accepted is true care and love. True care and love make a minor fraction of the care and love you are born to receive on this planet. Remember this always.

There are times you better be alone because you can never get the same chance to be alone. Alone in grief. Alone in huddles. Alone during the most critical time of your life. Alone in trying hard times. Alone in failing times. Alone in times when you need their understanding the most and their help. Alone in the most abstract battles against addiction and personal struggles. These times must be when you prove your strength in your fights.

Alone is not lonely as lonely is not alone. Some chose to say that alone means “all alone” to point to the most treasured plurality of one. With that plurality of one, you have the power to look for clues inside where you can find them than outside where you can not. Bigger things in life are also how far can you go without anyone helping you as the wheel.

Why simply admiring ‘role models’ is wrong and won’t make you successful.

It’s easier to see their success. Not only do we see theirs, we feel it and it sort of gives us pressure but the confidence to come up with ours. We admire and put these successful people on our role-model shelves, and try to build our stories with them in mind and also learn from them. Yet from these seven points, success is not a single-sided coin we see through the successful figures around us.

  1. Success is by mechanism harder to attain. It must be so that only those who deserve to attain are those who can attain it.
  2. Like in a viral image seen online where a man holds a placard to the people in from of him “Success” while words like suffering, rejection and pain are written at the back of his formal jacket. It is so loud  that it can help to cover up all they went through to attain it.
  3. Because we want smooth process and because pain is a hard to endure we also help to hide the pain behind the successful people’s success to create a narrative of a smooth process and high IQ minds involved. Anyone among us who aims success who picks at role models does it with wrong reasons.
  4. Even with the right information about all rockets that took off, your rocket must have its own ways of taking-off. Success is a product of relevant information built by the one who achieved it. Among this information is what one entirely discovers.
  5. That being said. Circumstances differ. The means you have at start is different to theirs and, therefore, the effort you need to put, connections you must build, the type of foundation to be laid and everything else to be put in place differs.
  6. A perfect achievement is a product of paths discovered and straightened up. All successful people discovered their paths but its not all who straightened them up. What is that you should be? You have the power to define that for yourself.
  7. Success is a product of working on the vacuum inside to fill it. If its already filled before you try to fill it you have to empty it and fill it with the right stuff. This is important. Yet from role models we don’t get to see the type of vacuums they filled inside, we only see the landscapes.

If you are to be successful, just know that there is a time to submit and a time to rise to prowess, a time to be the needy and neglected a time to stand up high sufficed. Resist submission when it is the time not to resist it, you’re only failing yourself. Think of yourself as a king when you should be a servant for that story you’re trying to write, you’re only buying yourself more time in servitude.

You can be your own role model. This is the secret in most of the ultra-success stories. A role model to self seeks to keep modifying the self to better standards that can keep up and conquer the needs of the day or fail as required by the situation and learn first-personly afterwards. A role model to self is a deeper understanding of the inner-self and the flaws in there.

A role model to self can become what the self really love to become not what others have. Yourself is the best role model you can have in life. It doesn’t take a lot to see that there are corners of you that need more workings as you tackle the journey.

After all, life must have parts of it sour as a journey. The ultra-successful people who endured pain for years don’t waste time explaining their pain as they even know that we are not willing to listen when they tell the build-up part. So don’t waste your time trying to listen to whatever they say. It is not the true story, the true story is one you are not willing to hear. They suffered a lot. You should, too. Two scientists who discovered graphene in the mid-2000s are simply the winners of the Nobel prices but their story is more than that. They worked hard. They starved. They suffered for it.

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Smartphone industry: Learning from the failure of Nokia and Palm.

Nokia

Palm’s Web Operating System, interface-wise should have been the exact thing users were expecting Nokia to deliver
on their Symbian platform when it was launched in 2009. It brought cards which we can see on Android at the pressing
of the multitasking button. The old days spirit had Palm delivering a smartphone in a slide form factor which revealed
a physical keyboard under it. But they had just delivered to the world gestures that took over iPhone ten years later.
Under the screen, there was a touch-sensitive area. Swiping upwards from that zone would trigger desirable happenings on the screen.

Palm with its offering was far ahead. But It didn’t notice. A device in only one form factor wasn’t enough to convince
users to buy it. But they simply refused to allow other makers into the game. Yet they were not advantaged enough to
play the hardware game.

In real life, it takes a smarter understanding of what you have achieved to keep pursuing the path you have chosen and
not give up on it. We usually take notice of the negatives and fail to appreciate the negatives which we can build on to
turn the other failures into pure success.


Nokia, in fact, failed to bring any revolution on the platform. The user interface was not for grannies. It could still take
a user seven steps into the settings to reach a point where she could start to add her email account in 2009 when
Palm’ Web OS was released. Developers on the other hand seemed like thrown to an orphanage, and they needed
Software development toolkits and an abstract AppStore where users could add their cards and buy their apps.
But two years back, that is in 2007, Nokia’s CEO laughed when the iPhone came out sighting its lack of a physical keyboard. He laughed hard.

Nokia logo pngegg.com
Nokia Logo *Pngegg.com


He didn’t see it as a threat. After all, Nokia then had a global market share of 60% in the industry. This new threat had a
single button and a vast screen covering slightly more than 50% of the device’s front. Its manufacturer had to partner
with a network service provider in the USA to deliver unique mobile browsing on a phone. This was the world’s first
smartphone, trying to fit well in the world of feature phones.


Rumours had it that the first pre-production iPhones were buggy to such an extent that the one Steve used for the launch was feared to crush. But it didn’t. Only it fired an employee by deleting him from the contact list.


Nokia had to reform. Nokia’s CEO noticed the territoriality of the iPhone and issues it would later have including
connectivity and relaxed in his rocking chair thinking that this was another try that was bound to fail. The company he led, Nokia, was a hardware company. Reforms could have been setting a separate and autonomous software side of it that could develop itself by earnings out of the software side while the parent company reaps from the hardware side. Reforms could have been trying the iPhone model and its form factor and as well a simple user
interface to light up smiles at the faces of grannies.

In 2008, Android launched. And moved on to welcome all, first, by beginning with HTC a company that had a history of
delivering one or two world’s first (including the world’s first touchscreen phone). They decentralised the software.
Allowed developers to have all the components of the software’s source code in their hands and gave all the software
free to anyone and manufacturers of hardware (OEMs) who needed it. They would then add a layer of services that still
exist as the only closed island in the Android ocean and made it compulsory to use. These services, including the
PlayStore became their gateway into reaping a lot out of the advertising industry and attracting more users to their
services.


Apple was a software company as it was a hardware one. Their iPhone would race with Google’s Android in the
services race. And by 2009 reports were that some game developers could turn into millionaires through iPhone’s and Android’s app stores. But three things were apparent in 2009. That Nokia was failing in the services race. Nokia
was failing in the hardware department. Nokia was failing in the software race. Yet they only partnered with the likes of
Intel in bringing MeeGo in 2011 when they were now at 35%, but quickly they ditched MeeGo over Windows Phone.
Their first device in iPhone’s form factor came in 2009 with TFT resistive touchscreen meaning it was an old generation
of touchscreens that couldn’t even find their place on the screen of the first iPhone announced in 2007.


The tech industry’s quick pace at changing its landscape is not as we can expect in the chemical, aviation, mother,
steel and what not industry. We expect that in real life. Things change fast to prove if you are worth staying in the
game. Arrogance and laughing at what’s happening at the next door when we should act can burn down houses.
Don’t look at your past achievements or your current status or that 60% you have as a basis of what to do. Do only what you must do. There is a big difference between what you must do and what you can do. In what you must do there is sacrifice. In what you can do there are your capabilities. We can do a lot. There are only fewer things we must do.


Nokia kept delivering the camera and focusing on that instead of also building on things they haven’t achieved.
When things are meant to change fast. You need to adapt to serve yourself from extinction.

Can you make millions out of a $100 start?

A million-dollar mind that can make millions out of a $100 start.

The article “Can you make millions out of a $100 start” made it here thanks to a $120 old laptop bought in 2020 out $370 I earned in that year.

Whatever happens on this planet. Does not happen without its prerequisites present. To make millions out of a $100 prerequisites for such a thing to happen must be lined up. Some just have to be unique talents. People who can enter athletics and the field of sports, earn and be signed by advertising companies. Such people are few in the world as people who can win the jackpot. But if you are wondering if it’s possible to leap from whatever is in your hands and head straight into millions and even billions, with no talent or a higher IQ involved, this article is the right start.

But you have to be warned. That if you want to make it big in life forget the life you think of as belonging to the big people in money and start working and thinking big. The biggest mission in your life is accomplishing it. It’s not the mission itself. The toughest part is not being assigned or assigning yourself. It’s accomplishing what you must. Otherwise having the mission is for everyone. Accomplishing it is for the few.

Your starting point is valid *Canva
Your starting point is valid *Canva

Among the list of people with personal achievements are people who first couldn’t read, but then learned to read from litter and discarded newspapers with any text written on them and try to read, and learn to read anything. Aren’t you a better starter than them? Reading or writing may be necessary but what’s more important is the persistence you need to build what can break through barriers, and patience to stay at it when you have no reason to do so. What they did is they couldn’t stop trying to read again and again after failing to master what’s written, they simply kept going on and on. Be like them because you need to have to put understanding the world you live in above all. Know why people are paid in the ways they are paid and how to find your own means to be paid.

It is a big prerequisite to have if you want to make millions out of a $100 start, knowing that people are paid through (1) the certificates and qualifications, (2) their minds and (3) their muscle. The first is what we call a formal paying job and salaries or wages are the forms of payment that come at an agreed time interval. The second can be a self-job or a self-system. A self-job is just a job without a salary but rather results in payments at any time sales or appreciation of the value of your work are made and can pay less than or more than a salary. Above a self-job, a self-system seeks to be what employs or gives a job in the process of creating, and hence producing, what’s in the mind of the owner of that said system. A good example is a computer we all use. The software it runs, if Windows, is not free because it was someone’s idea, therefore, someone’s mind, that a piece of software can be sold. Bill Gates took a lead, and that lead upped his earnings. You don’t need to drop out of college but you may need to avoid the job when time allows when you are finally able to stand alone, or when you have just a salary you want out of it.

Habits are the prerequisites. Habits are nothing big except the format and the level of formality you do or not, or attempt or not things in your life and, hence, achieve or not things in your life. They can buy your efficiency. Atomic Habits by James Clear gave us an example of how British cyclists emerged from being the worst in Europe to being one of the best in a short time.

To make millions out of a $100 start you need to have the power to move that tiny resource into a better one. Everything is yours to build; from connections to associations, from worst ideas to disruptive ideas and from a terrible start or false start to a true start. The pace at which you travel is yours to define. But a panic pace is not good. Find reasons to calm down. Don’t do what you do to have something at the end of the day to show and attract comments unless when it’s your business to do so. You have a great story. In the meantime, it’s not there yet. Waste no time explaining it to people. Just write it.

There are things that can not make you millions but they may be things available and best for starters. Once you gain something out of them you must then move to things you think you can lift. Comfort zones are not zones of action, avoid them. The artist, Michael John Bobak, had to tell us “All progress takes place outside the comfort zone”.

A street boy collected bones from restaurant bins. Those from beef meat are mechanically cut. He would be going after big deals flooring homes of well-to-dos with them. Adhesives involved made him grab profits as they were strong. Connections with the streets allowed him to hire other street boys who could start where he had left with the search, and he also bought garbage bins for restaurants which he had to collect at nights. He relied on the city’s weak sanitation systems but big-spending upper- and middle-classes people who were limited in numbers. In a big town with people seeking to beautify their homes he quickly rose to the talk of the town and registered his ever-growing company, now with operations outside.

Capital is what’s in your hand not what’s far away. It is time to take notice and chase after. Raising it starts by turning yourself into a machine that can achieve that, with zero leakages. Really $1000 is a lot if you have something big planned but nothing if you have to waste it. When you are homeless the scale of needs and spending you operate with is lower. A street boy mentioned above rose to success also through avoiding those things he had not enjoyed in the past. During his rise, his diet would be limited to cheaper veggies and cheaper bread. He even paid his accountant more than what he would spend a month. It must be not them but you who must suffer for your plan. Suffer for it. Build a money system while you suffer.

At the height of self-made success, we have the likes of Elon Musk. He used what I call passion A to passion B to passion whatever “concept”, and that being said you do what your passion is. Zip2 had to start out of pain and not many dollars. You can use the same model to turn $100 dollars into $5000, then charge your growth from there. You don’t have to put your train in the tracks. Move it aimlessly.

Once Zip2 was something to envy. It was sold, this time for millions (it wasn’t his decision, though). It had to grow because there was a massive vision behind it. The millions it achieved led him somewhere else… Billions. The secrets of a self-system are simple. It’s a drizzle leading to a shower and a shower leading to a torrent. A cloudless sky must be your first thing to change.

One thing I am so sure that I didn’t miss myself from knowing is this. The direction you pick is the colour of the knowledge you can have. Avoid a job at once, you can only find yourself not able to write a CV/Resume. Let alone knowing which job can pay the best. Simply after your education, start with hopes of building your company or companies and stay in that at the cost of a happier life, you can get to discover CVs of founding a company. Of course, discovery trails behind the information and knowledge you chase after or build and the visions you lay up. To make millions out of a $100 start the effort you may require is immense but it can equal the pain and even suffering people who chase after formal jobs and stick to them can go through. Love the pain you can endure.

Information is abundant in this world. You have two ways about it: to avoid it or to search for it. You may be a teacher. That same laptop you browse with and entertain yourself with can boost your earnings. When a salary creeps into your account you may buy a camera instead of anything fancier, and another useful item next time. After that, you start learning from tutorials online on software like Sozi and create your courses in the way. You can find yourself earning tenth-fold. But what we don’t do mostly and voluntarily is to search for information and knowledge that we can apply as our own bosses. We mostly need information and knowledge to apply when we are under someone’s systems. After attaining that information we can use when we are under, obviously employed, we pump a lot into ourselves from the hobbies side. All the series, social networks, sport and anything.

A flawless self-financing system leaves debt out. Debt is not good. It is one of the things that trap people and keep them under. It guides what people can do and it limits them. Debt is in money terms, time terms and metaphorical sense. You have to avoid it as you must avoid luxuries that are not really luxuries but things you can afford at serious costs. It was a luxury to the street boy who tiled people’s homes with bones to eat meals that are not very cheap, and he avoided that luxury.

It can’t go without including choices in the discussion. These are the things you make every second, after each choice are priorities. What you opt for must take you one step ahead instead of changing nothing about your situation or condition. While time is the most important thing. If you manage it perfectly. You are good. What’s left is to go ahead and consider it the least important thing in the time being. You are not being left behind. Don’t be in a race with them. Be patient and wait. Choose what can give you ideal results, not quick results.

Adaption but flexibility is what you must learn to go with earlier. Go with the least. When the least turns into the worst pull up your sleeves. When you must be angry smile out of what can sadden. For people with a poor start, extinction is close. Adapting must change this if you want to make millions out of a $100 start.

Sometimes people fight harder to rise to a certain point in their lives. Once they reach it they retire. “Oh, I can now buy a house.” A higher net worth is achieved not only through bigger plans but through not putting the brakes to the pace you had back then when you started. If you keep pushing you can suddenly reach a point where you relax and assign or invite people to push forward what you started.

People who are hungry don’t wait for a time and the right conditions to do so to start their journeys to their satisfaction. They simply invite starting lines to where they are standing, and they do beg but they simply force starting lines to allow them to start where a start is impossible To make millions out of a $100 start you simply have to work hard? No! Have family wealth to back you up, a better-off background. No! You must have a different mindset or idea that attracts money. What’s important is what you build not what you are given.

Avoid a work environment where you can not make the rules but follow instead the rules made and create a system where all the existing rules are yours and yours to break.

You can build efficiency systems so that what was supposed to be waste can become reusable again. This blog is a product of my downtimes. Some articles were written on cardboard pieces before I had managed to afford a smartphone for the purpose of writing while walking. During those downtimes, I did a lot more. Your times without must be times for creating means to end up having it all at a faster pace. The smartphone would cost $40 and it had been in use for two years. The value of work it created is worth more hours of time and tons of memories, and it never witnessed a notification from a social media app.

You have to use whatever is in your hands to create possibilities of the start of your breakthrough. The resources you can have must serve a function creating the stated possibilities. If more than that the resource itself is expensive find a cheaper one.

At the core of such an efficient system are addictions that pay and not the ones that can kill a human. People who finally find themselves worth $50 million but dare to lose two-thirds of it overnight to add more to their money-making machinery fare well in this race. After all, they understand that they are not in a race so they don’t compete they simply beat the competition. They allow their work to include diversity, hence they cooperate. Big businesses grow by including people of different capabilities.

Some people are so sure about what they do. Once they calculate they do not need to re-do that again. So, they work hard even for a decade to achieve something and then sell it away in an instant as if they are mad. Once they do so they build something fast out of what they earned from selling that product worth a decade o effort and climb very up higher and higher.

Allow me to make a correction: If you want to work hard. Think hard. Live hard. Learn heard. Thinking, living, learning, and working must be respected altogether. Failures are full of lessons. Don’t hate them.

That we are all going to die. The function of death.

The function of death is to limit in every sense:- demographic sense, political sense, economic sense, warring sense, etc. The fact that one day we are all going to die. It’s something likeable. Because I don’t imagine healthy earth if all ancestors were here, still living and not ageing. All ancestors: the most liberal, the most conservative, the evilest, the purest at heart, givers takers, leaders to like and leaders to hate.

Death is our friend precisely because it brings us into absolute and passionate presence with all that is here, that is natural, that is love.

Rainer Maria Rilke



Death is there to make sure that we are all goods with best before and must be busy to get her/himself to the market before the value is lost. That value is in progress and a step back each human make. It’s a value in all possibilities, bad or good. When it is bad death is there to put a break before much harm is caused. So, that we are all going to die, it’s something to like. The function of death is to break infinity into finite and, therefore, cause vanity.

Human dreams are not a good thing. Sometimes they seek to build. Sometimes they seek to ruin it all. What’re the benefits of building in thousands of years a thing you can wipe out in a second? Humans are scary. Human dreams must be stopped. There must be a ceiling to stop them. Tell’em, “well boys and girls, end here”.

Death is there to do that. Life means suffering and joy combined, both being possibilities in every second. The function of death is to stop the repetition over and over of these two. So that once restless is restful. Every road must have an ending. If there is no end there is no journey in it.

When waiting for a train. A certain thing is the timetable is the to do its work. But it works this way that for arrival to be made, a departure must happen in real-time. The same train leaving can be back again at the same spot. Death seam to bring that into the human system. I must die so that in the future a better version of me must exist to correct where I faltered. Oppression, slavery, superiority and anything that disturbed the human race if it makes sense to me, chances are it will cease to make any sense to my future and future offspring. We must die.

When we die we leave our ideas behind so that they can be a starting point for what’s left and what comes in the future.

No matter how brilliantly, successfully and terribly you write your story. The function of death is to put a conclusion. Some are unlucky they have that conclusion earlier in their lives.

What is fear? The bad or good, and overcoming it.

The Fear System

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Fear of the unknown* Informativus

What is fear? The term origins can be traced back to proto-Germanic feraz which means danger. Fær is the old English origin for middle English fere “sudden attack, calamity, danger”. Simply put, fear is a state of being afraid, after perceiving the danger that can result from avoiding or going through an experience, object, practice etc. The Christian Bible’s usage of the term fear is well-covered in this definition. Hindu writings, Bhagavad Gita being one of them, dwelled a lot on fear as well. Fear exists in the books of religion.

During the age of the internet we have seen more fears entering the English terminology. The Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO) and the Fear Of a Better Option (FOBO). People are building more ways to communicate what’s fear and help in fighting it and understanding it. Yet, according to this source, the psychological term for fear of the unknown is supposed to be xenophobia. Yet, phobia is an extension applicable to any form of hate. What you are afraid of in this fear of the unknown sense is what you are likely to hate.

How fear of the unknown forms or is created in an individual being? Well, before one creates fear in himself. He creates the unknown which result in fear. Things are so as it is said that people sometimes fear those things they do not understand. Fear combines with the lack of understanding can make hate over the things not understood.

Fear exists in our paths to greatness as an obstacle. It’s far that put brakes when you are supposed to move. This is the exact fear discussed here, the ‘bad fear’. Fear is good as it is bad. When it is bad, it sort of stays in the qualities of the good fear, respected by the host and the society. It is a system of one’s beliefs, and beliefs may subtract the need to know.

The terrible thing with this fear is it can allow you to try, take some initial steps and have you forget that those steps are progress and quit. The bad fear is the best fear to fry your progress.

Fear is the worst thing that could happen to a human. It sort of gives him some confidence to act, when it is nothing. It gets one into moving backwards eventually since it’s never eyes to see nor the guts to discover. The format fear is in is fear itself. It is the biggest obstacle in the book of success.

Bad fear is pointless. Live in it you become pointless. It attacks the centre of solution-making first, the mind. When things are so you are worse of in fear that you can be in an intensive care unit.

You can say that you are afraid of lions. That is not different from saying that you hate to dine with the lions. Fear anything you don’t specifically understand and chose not ever understand it, you can only hate it.

It’s rather better not to ever step into that ring that is in there facing an opponent filled with it. In most cases, the best fruits of fear are not victory/. Fear can leave you worse than you were when you started.

The positive sides of fear

Fear exists in our systems of belief as a correctional centre of it. You are afraid to do scam business or to hurt someone physically or emotionally. That alone keeps you a good person in society when you have more chances to be a very bad person. You are disposed to not do things against your ethics, morality, your religion or principles, the law and so on.

Fear in this case ceases to be ‘bad fear’ to become ‘good fear’.

How to win over fear

You don’t need a powerful hand. You just have to list things through it. The very step towards overcoming fear is just feeling that you are adequate. You don’t need to be overconfident, though. When you set the fire and fail to have it burn allow patience to be your jacket in the cold.

Know what you are dealing with the best you can know it. The time is always there. Don’t waste it. Once you have the knowledge apply it. The third aspect of knowledge which is not knowledge itself, not its application is knowledge of applying knowledge.

Read: Discover, don’t see things and build a proper perspective.

Fail to abuse the resources at your exposal. As for me, I didn’t watch pirated movies on the village’s first computer which I own. That’s why I am here blogging for you.

Find some source of encouragement, build a friendship that is your ultimate strengthening resource. Their words are powerful as well as their actions. Allow only those who can deliver good words and experiences that can liquidate your fear.

Failure must be a moment to learn a bigger things in your game. Don’t allow it to cause much panic. Once you fail, allow yourself to access the parts of the failure that are yours and correct them and forget the parts of that failure that were caused by someone else.

Toxicity of desire how to change desire into positivity

When the words “Toxicity of desire” are used to form such a phrase the assumption is desire is toxic. But when desire is spoken of as a necessity in the mending of success stories you must best be questioning: How to change desire into positivity.

Toxicity of desire: Lessons from normal humans at the clinic and a hyena in the jungle.

My second dose of vaccine came on September 13, 2021. On this day I and other tens and tens of people at the clinic offended their reason of existence. It was a kid suffering from a malnutrition condition at the clinic which everyone ignored. His mother had to stand in the queue with us and behind much of us. Yet we were not ill.

It was the desire of anyone visiting the clinic to get all his/her issues solved earlier and leave. After all, spending hours at the clinic waiting for a jab that is two weeks overdue is not desirable. The woman and her malnutrition kid had to first pass through the temperature tests, and everyone including all of us who were healthy and had visited to get a jab had to. The temperature test process wasn’t anything to consume more than five minutes. But none allowed the kid a slot ahead of him/her. Excuses ranged from “I left my doors not locked” to “I have a visitor at my home”.

A young laughing hyena found itself the only of its kind alive in the plain. A terrible drought had hit, two years had passed without any rains until two weeks ago. For three days it rained softly and calmly as if to quench the tears of losses the wildlife had endured. But there was not much among the stocks of the living wildlife to answer to it positively as it wasn’t a guarantee of a smooth ever raining after. Calves, cubs and other offsprings, the signs were, were insignificant in numbers this year. And the surviving hyena simply had to learn to survive more by trying to hunt alone whereas hyenas are group hunters.

After the rain and floods after it, the hyena followed deposited material looking for anything to eat until it joined a pack of vultures on a carcass that was almost zero meat left. The mother to this young one had taught her that a thin layer of cartilage and the bone structure it wraps around the knee joins was the most delicious treat in the jungle. The young hyena found the front leg stripped of all the meat upon arrival and dragged it towards sloppy ground since such required her to be on a slope, on the downside of it, pin the bone with her legs while her teeth ate into it.

The vultures laughed. “Why is she ignoring the little meat left in favour of the bone, after all, we don’t eat bones.”

The meat was no match to what her mama had characterised as delicious and she would starve to death for that as she did it over and over, and day after day. With her age and the strength of her teeth taken into account, she could not eat many bones to cover up her nutritional needs. What could have saved her was not delicious but simply the meat.

Don’t chase for what’s exceptionally yours. Chase for what’s rare, for something that if missed you will never get a chance to possess it.

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The toxicity of desire or the benefit of it

Usually in this life. We are shown the fancy things and that can make us like them. We are also shown that can afford them. Already when that happens our hearts are already loving it. What we are not shown are the true costs of affording that exact thing. The bigger cost is forgetting everything else that can matter. it is Forgetting a better life you can achieve without what you have been shown and which you can afford at serious costs. As we are probably all addicted people; that’s the second thing. Addiction plays a bigger part. It helps in showing us what we can afford and while hiding the costs of affording what we can afford.

A desire is irrational. So everything that plays in the chemistry of the heart is with its tendencies to cause harm unless it’s capitalised on to produce positives. Desire is said to be essential in building success. It is also heavily involved in erasing the possibilities of success. So, if the desire is toxic, why is it a benefit of it to the few others. Ladies and gentlemen each one of us, every second, is getting the toxicity of desire or the benefit of it.

If we are allowed to describe an adult life in the context of a moving bus with its passengers. Desire would not be the wheels. Desire is the driver. Each one of us is seated in the backseat and we can’t be heard all the time when we voice at our desires. We are very unlucky that we can’t control or stop the desire as long as our wheels of life are moving. What we can do is just to use it in building the most positive things in our lives.

It can be a desire to be happy. When you desire to be happy it means without being happy you are not fulfilled. The best you can do is to allow that happiness to be out of the least instead of the most you can find. In the same manner, successful people are people who simply directed desire into a bigger vision in life instead of simply allowing it to drive recklessly.

Changing desire into positivity

A desire is the inner working of the human’s wants. It’s the need to emotionally possess, control, be in charge, or even get free and exploit. A desire is largely a terrible thing than it is a good one. Grandfather and I had time to talk about the structures build from around 700 (Great Zimbabwe) to 200 (others) years ago in Zimbabwe. A novel is quoted by some as a source to prove that the stone structures were pilled up into UNESCO-heritage-class monuments at the cost of virtually any man involved in the constructed process. Men had to roll tonnes of stones without the aid of draught power or pulleys which weren’t our thing back then. The story in the novel picked at events happening not so many decades before the colonisation. The building of a second structure resembling Great Zimbabwe happened in the context of the king who wanted a tower that would allow him to touch the moon. 

The novel is wrong as a work of fiction. But it truly showed us the true nature of us humans, and the question left is how to turn that terrible monster, desire, into something positive and make our lives better and the world better places? Here is how to change desire into positivity:

  • Build a vision, not plans. Construct a roadmap, don’t build a highway.
  • Build layers of good habits in you life daily. With good habits there is never enough of it. You can read “Atomic Habits” by James Clear.
  • Have all the detail that can matter in your life. Don’t be a stranger to yourself. Admit what you are to correct it from that point. It must not take anyone to point what you are not at par.
  • Do some value analysis of the things you may want to achieve before you can go for them. It is a great deal to know the value you can give to yourself, the society and your family and the meaning of it. Some things you desire when achieved can simply subtract.
  • Have a serious consideration for others. Though you can not give them your love you can give them your respect.
  • Self-respect is essential in making a person. It is a clear outline of what you can allow yourself to go through, to feel, to be and be involved in.
  • Don’t chase for what’s exceptionally yours. Chase for what’s rare, for something that if missed you will never get a chance to possess it. The hyena here did the opposite and ended up on the losing side.
  • Put some light into your past mistakes to know if toxic desire had been ionvolved in making them. Distance a mistake from a failure for a failure is a better fellow between it and a mistake.
  • Allow yourself to be wrong to be wrong to correct yourself. If you fall on the wrong side no one can imprison you for that. Judge yourself openly, and build yourself in the way.
  • Build inner superiority (interiority). It can beat outter superiority (superiority) or inner weakness (inferirioty). Watch a TedTalks video where this interiority thing is coming from.
  • Have the patience where it is needed not the confidence. Patience can referee your desire into proper results.

Failure: What’s good advice to anyone failing?

Mickey Rooner on Failure

What’s my advice to persons who just failed?

Put your failure in your wallet. Have it there as your legal tender. It can buy something for you. Between you and your success, there is your failure.

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Just because you have failed, it doesn’t mean that what you were and what you are doing is what can lead to failure.

You may not like it when you fail. But don’t hate it when you fail. The first thing is you must learn from your failure and you cannot learn from a teacher you hate. The other thing is not liking it is different from hating it.

Keep trying when you fail if your heart is telling you that you love that run you have not won yet. I would rather feel the hate in what I love than feel the love in what I hate. Feel the doom in what you love the most than promises in what your heart isn’t ticking for. One day it will come right.

Failure is not an invention. If you fail it’s not that someone invented the kind of failure you are in. Take a deeper look into you because it is you whom you must correct to come up with a machine born to succeed. The majority would rather distance themselves and put their failure somewhere far so that they can be safer from it and fail to understand it and fail to learn from it and fail again. But there are ways to bring in a failure into bringing in your success.

Success is about how many capabilities you build. When you fail it means you are some capabilities before success. To catch up you need to keep multiplying your capabilities. It’s painful such capabilities but not like watching yourself remain in that failure forever.

Related: In your journey to success, these thoughts can get you far

Apparently, if you are always right everything becomes wrong. When you fail allow it to be much more of how others solve issues between them and their partners. They just avoid being correct and admit that they are wrong. When you fail you are advised to ask yourself “what went wrong?” and “what’s my fault in this wrong?” and to choose answers to such questions that are not self-biased.

Put your failure in your wallet. Have it there as your legal tender. It can buy something for you. Between you and your success, there is your failure. Avoid not going through that bridge. You are making a serious wrong. You grow through a failure, and that type of growth is called “growing in strength“.

In the making of a failure, there is always something that you avoided you shouldn’t have avoided; something you should have avoided you didn’t; something that you missed you shouldn’t have; something you didn’t miss you should have missed.

Among winners in the major wars fought there are some losers who we say to have won the war when the losses they have made are immense. Think of it if being on the winning side doesn’t really mean you are a winner, being on the losing side is not designed to mean that you are really a loser. Lose while in your path to ultimate victory. Fail while determined to ultimately win.

Think long-term. Then work on it. Results don’t have to come yesterday or today or even tomorrow. It’s possible to win the game with consistency and patience being your both arms that with confidence and endowment being your footstool.

If you are playing the game and losing over and over, it may mean that you haven’t tried to play it in your own game. Give yourself a position and an environment that can allow you to strike a difference.

Build good habits and put formality in them. So that it can cease to be just making sure that when you are an author writing 300 words when you wake up is the first thing to do but writing them on a perfect desk instead of your bed is the first to do. We are all habitual beings. A good habit system keeps us on the good side of what we are (habitual). Formality gets us to respect what we are (habitual) and what we aspire to be through the habits.

Focus. Live like a normal person with an abnormal purpose on the planet. Allow your body to rest and feed it well, and if you respect it it can work for you without a flaw. A failure is not the end of it all. It may be a new twist to the story, a story that relies on the script you write.