The Fear System
What is fear? The term origins can be traced back to proto-Germanic feraz which means danger. Fær is the old English origin for middle English fere “sudden attack, calamity, danger”. Simply put, fear is a state of being afraid, after perceiving the danger that can result from avoiding or going through an experience, object, practice etc. The Christian Bible’s usage of the term fear is well-covered in this definition. Hindu writings, Bhagavad Gita being one of them, dwelled a lot on fear as well. Fear exists in the books of religion.
During the age of the internet we have seen more fears entering the English terminology. The Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO) and the Fear Of a Better Option (FOBO). People are building more ways to communicate what’s fear and help in fighting it and understanding it. Yet, according to this source, the psychological term for fear of the unknown is supposed to be xenophobia. Yet, phobia is an extension applicable to any form of hate. What you are afraid of in this fear of the unknown sense is what you are likely to hate.
How fear of the unknown forms or is created in an individual being? Well, before one creates fear in himself. He creates the unknown which result in fear. Things are so as it is said that people sometimes fear those things they do not understand. Fear combines with the lack of understanding can make hate over the things not understood.
Fear exists in our paths to greatness as an obstacle. It’s far that put brakes when you are supposed to move. This is the exact fear discussed here, the ‘bad fear’. Fear is good as it is bad. When it is bad, it sort of stays in the qualities of the good fear, respected by the host and the society. It is a system of one’s beliefs, and beliefs may subtract the need to know.
The terrible thing with this fear is it can allow you to try, take some initial steps and have you forget that those steps are progress and quit. The bad fear is the best fear to fry your progress.
Fear is the worst thing that could happen to a human. It sort of gives him some confidence to act, when it is nothing. It gets one into moving backwards eventually since it’s never eyes to see nor the guts to discover. The format fear is in is fear itself. It is the biggest obstacle in the book of success.
Bad fear is pointless. Live in it you become pointless. It attacks the centre of solution-making first, the mind. When things are so you are worse of in fear that you can be in an intensive care unit.
You can say that you are afraid of lions. That is not different from saying that you hate to dine with the lions. Fear anything you don’t specifically understand and chose not ever understand it, you can only hate it.
It’s rather better not to ever step into that ring that is in there facing an opponent filled with it. In most cases, the best fruits of fear are not victory/. Fear can leave you worse than you were when you started.
The positive sides of fear
Fear exists in our systems of belief as a correctional centre of it. You are afraid to do scam business or to hurt someone physically or emotionally. That alone keeps you a good person in society when you have more chances to be a very bad person. You are disposed to not do things against your ethics, morality, your religion or principles, the law and so on.
Fear in this case ceases to be ‘bad fear’ to become ‘good fear’.
How to win over fear
You don’t need a powerful hand. You just have to list things through it. The very step towards overcoming fear is just feeling that you are adequate. You don’t need to be overconfident, though. When you set the fire and fail to have it burn allow patience to be your jacket in the cold.
Know what you are dealing with the best you can know it. The time is always there. Don’t waste it. Once you have the knowledge apply it. The third aspect of knowledge which is not knowledge itself, not its application is knowledge of applying knowledge.
Fail to abuse the resources at your exposal. As for me, I didn’t watch pirated movies on the village’s first computer which I own. That’s why I am here blogging for you.
Find some source of encouragement, build a friendship that is your ultimate strengthening resource. Their words are powerful as well as their actions. Allow only those who can deliver good words and experiences that can liquidate your fear.
Failure must be a moment to learn a bigger things in your game. Don’t allow it to cause much panic. Once you fail, allow yourself to access the parts of the failure that are yours and correct them and forget the parts of that failure that were caused by someone else.